Does this sound like you? If so, you may need to ask yourself who are fighting with. At first glance, you may feel powerful by “picking a safe fight” with loved ones. But realistically, these quick outbursts may be illustrating to you that you are fighting with yourself. In other words, you may be looking to pick a fight with your past, present, or future self. No, I’m not talking about time travel. I’m talking about dealing with the fact that you are navigating through a difficult time with no easy answers.